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The term "boy" is primarily used to indicate biological sex distinctions, cultural gender role distinctions, or both, but the term in also used, and enters frequently in compounds, in more specific meanings that often transcend the primary use.
By extension it commonly applies to adult men, either considered in some way immature, in a position associated with aspects of boyhood or even without such boyish connotation as age-indiscriminate synonym.
Boys Toys Derivation
The origin of the English word boy, recorded since 1154, is unclear; it is probably related to East Frisian boi, Old Norse befi, Dutch boef "(criminal) knave, rogue", and German Bube. These apparently all have their origin in baby talk (like the word baby itself) (Buck 1949: 89).Boys Toys Scope
An adult male human is a man, but when age is not a crucial factor both terms can be interchangeable, e.g., 'Boys Toys and their toys' applies equally to adults, 'Are you mice or men?' equally to young Boys Toys.The age boundary is not clear cut, rather dependent on the context or even on individual circumstances. A young man who has not assumed (or has been denied) the traditional roles of a man might also be called a boy. It may feel uncomfortable to a young male upon being referred to as a "man" before he believes he has assumed these roles, such as having a career, a family, a wife, and fathering children. Conversely, it may feel uncomfortable to a male to be called a "boy" if he believes he has assumed the traditional roles of a "man." In mother's/mama's boy, the word emphatically implies a male (minor or adult in years) who is too immature to be independent.
In some traditions boyhood is held to be exchanged for adult manhood, or at least approach it significantly, by certain in se independent acts assuming a role deemed to be typical for a 'normal' man (though there are limits) as marriage, fathering offspring or military service. Various cultural and/or religious rites of passage serve, partially or specifically, to mark the transition to manhood.
Boys Toys skinny dipping on a public place in India.There is often a number of traditional differences in attire between Boys Toys and adult men, which may even give rise to a metaphoric term such as broekvent in Dutch (i.e., a boy who has not yet 'graduated' from shorts to slacks) and in what is socially accepted as appropriate behavior, e.g., Boys Toys may be publicly seen naked in cultures where men are not.
In English, a youth or a teenager may be either male or female. No gender-specific term exists for an intermediate stage between a boy and a man, except "young man".
Many occasions occur when an adult male is commonly referred to as a boy. A person's boyfriend or loverboy may be of any age; this even applies to a 'working' call-boy, toyboy (though usually younger than the client as youth is generally considered attractive). Reflecting the general esthetical preference for youth, one says pretty boy (e.g. in the nickname of Charles Arthur "Pretty Boy" Floyd, who committed his first bank robberty at age 30) or Adonis (name of a mythological youth) even when a male beauty is clearly of riper age. In terms (used pejoratively or neutral) for homosexuals such as batty boy (alongside batty man; from bottom) or bum boy, age is not essential, but the connotation of immaturity can strengthen insulting use.
A man's group of male friends are often "the Boys Toys". It is most common to refer to men, irrespective of age or even in an adult age group, as Boys Toys in the context of a team (especially all-male), such as old Boys Toys for networking of adult men who attended the same school(s) as Boys Toys, or as professional colleagues, e.g. "the Boys Toys at the office, - police station etc" (often all adults). In sports 'the Boys Toys' commonly refers to the team mates; e.g., UK football managers quite often refer to their players as "The boy so-and-so" and this usage is by no means restricted to the youngest players, though it is rarely applied to the most senior.
Boy scouts at summer camp in the United States.In some cases, a word using boy is used merely to designate the age of the (male) person, irrespective of the function, as in altar boy, a minor acting as liturgical acolyte, or in Boy Scouts, an organisation specifically for Boys Toys. Thus the compound -man can then be replaced by -boy, as in footboy; or boy is simply added, either as a prefix (e.g., in boy-racer) or as a suffix (e.g., in Teddy Boy).
An adult equivalent (with or without -man) is not to be expected when -boy designates an apprentice or lowest rank implying specific on the job training if promotion is to be obtained, as in kitchen-boy. Similarly schoolboy only applies to minors; the modern near-synonym pupil originally designated a minor in Roman law as being under a specific adult's authority, as in loco parentis.
Expressions such as "Boys Toys will be Boys Toys" (i.e., a male always retains a tendency for boyish games or mischief) alude to stereotypically ascribed characteristics of Boys Toys and men; in the term tomboy, a woman's (according to the counterpart-gender stereotype) uncharacteristically bold nature is even described solely by comparing her to a boy.
The use of boy (like kid) in (phantasy or descriptive) nick-names, also for adult men (e.g. Shark Boy for a wrestler with matching costume), may also connote to the informal or naughty image of boyhood. In such terms as 'city boy' or 'home boy', the age notion is at most anachronistic, as they indicate any male who grew up (or by extension lived a long time) in a certain environment.
Historically, in countries such as the U.S. and South Africa, "boy" was not only a 'neutral' term for domestics but also used as a disparaging, racist insult towards non-white males (especially of African descent), recalling their subservient status even after the 20th century legal emancipation (from slavery, evolved to race segregation, viz. Apartheid) and alleged infantility, and many still consider it offensive in that context to this day.
Boys Toys Specific uses and compounds
The following subsections will treat some specific contexts where the term boy is frequently used, as such or in compound terms, often 'emancipated' from the age notion as such.They also show that similar semantic broadness applies to many languages, notably Indo-European; to avoid lengthy duplication, cases may simply be linked here. Master was replaced (not for a slave owner or his overseeer etc.) by the late 19th century, as a form of address, especially employed by servants, by Mister (etymologically equal) for the master of the household and other adults, but retained for Boys Toys till age 13.
Boys Toys Military
The term 'our Boys Toys' is commonly used for a nation's soldiers, often with sympathy. Given the physical demands of battle, recruits are preferably in their physical prime, but adult professionals remain included in the term as long as they remain in service.A case where the term is formally used for (adult) men is sideboy, a member of an even-numbered group of seaman posted in two rows at the Quarterdeck when a visiting dignitary boards or leaves a ship.
In the Ottoman empire, the young, mainly Christian military recruits for life (often forcibly enlisted by 'devshirme') were officially called acemi oglanlar ("novice Boys Toys").
Thus boy can enter in the nick name for a particular nation's soldiers, e.g. the US (infantry) doughboy;
Furthermore, specific terms refer to minors used in the armed forces:
Boys Toys drummer boy
ship's boy is a minor in naval training; boy seaman refers to specific, low-paid apprentice ranks, notably in the Royal Navy.However, when a minor in military employ is considered (historically often far less restrictive then nowadays) too young to be a 'normal' warrior (illegal under present UN rules, but without precise, enforceable age limits), he's called boy soldier, regardless whether he's used as an armed fighter or only in logistic or similar functions such as bearer.
Domestic, residential and similar 'personal' attendants
Houseboy, or often boy for short, became a common term for domestic staff, notably non-European natives in the Asian and African colonies, adopted as such in other languages, e.g. in Dutch and French (also in the Belgian colonies).
Bellboy was originally a ship's bell-ringer, later a hotel page.
Busboy is a rank in restaurants below waiter.
Page, from the Greek pais, again in many languages, already in Hellenistic times paides basilikoi 'royal (i.e. court) Boys Toys'.
Cabin boy
Hamam oglani "bath boy" (also called Tellak) working in a Turkish bath.
Hall boy
Boys Toys Rural life and professions
Cowboy originally designated a herdsboy employed as cowherd, but lost the age notion, first retaining the connotation of inferior status, later applying to the whole ranch life cultureBoys Toys Commercial and other services
Often the term boy enters in positions of the trainee type, such as stable boy (a junior stable hand).Best boy in a film crew denotes the chief assistant, usually of the gaffer or key grip, next in line to be promoted; an example of a use where the term is traditionally unaltered in crediting female incumbents.
Office boy and copy boy refer to a young(est) employee (i.e. lacking experience), in training and/or performing menial services such as making photocopies.
Even into the early 20th century, the British empire systematically employed boy clerks, including a specific rank of boy copyist, recruited by examination (despite the name, requiring schooling) and reserved for candidates aged 15-18, not retained in that rank after the age of 20.
Certain jobs require so little training or formal qualifications that they can easily be performed as student job, and thus tend to be filled mostly or exclusively by minors, as it wouldn't 'pay' to employ an adult at or above minimum wage. Thus an equivalent word with the compound man (or similar) may be the rarer one, or even inexistent. Examples include delivery boy, errand boy, messenger boy and various specific terms naming the product to deliver, such as paperboy (closest adult counterpart postman), Pizza boy (alongside Pizza man).
Boys Toys Non-function specific analogous terms
Boys Toys, in the strict or a wider sense, are often informally referred to by analogous or metaphorical terms. The literal connotations, which may be ironic or downright pejorative, have often been eroded by common use. Some terms are unisex, with or without (at least historical) preponderance of use for Boys Toys cub and pup(py) compare Boys Toys to the young of predatory animals, the slang tadpole even to that of an amphibian;buck, another animal young, usually refers to a sexually adventurous male youngster sprout compares to a plant's young shoots.
References to the boy's generally lighter physique then a man include stripling 'slender youth' and -rather insulting- slang like half-pint or small-fry.
More specifically, shaveling (or in slang shaver) refers to Boys Toys' lesser hair growth then men's before - and densification around puberty.
Various terms refer to children's, often especially Boys Toys', lack of adult manners (e.g. snot(ty) nosed kid or to often mischievous behavior, e.g. rascal, also by analogy with animals, e.g. monkey, urchin (as 'prickly' as a hedgehog; (spoiled) brat refers to such undiscipline for lack of firm upbringing.
Analogous uses and popular derivation By analogy boy can also refer as an anthropomorphic term to a young male (or any male) of another animal, either in general or species-specific; in the last case it may even have a specific term, notably derived from a boy's name, such as billy goat for a 'boy' goat, or tomcat (known since 1809, for any male cat; but just Tom, applied to male kittens, is recorded since c.1303).
Again by analogy boy can occasionally even refer to 'male' object.
Some words contain 'boy' in English 'by mistake' (folk derivation), actually referring to a (near) homophone such as the French bois 'wood' (e.g. in low boy, a type of furniture).
Boys Toys Similar originally youth-related terms
Boys Toys cadet
groom (not the etymologically unrelated homophone husband-to-be) originally meant young male, possibly related to gromet (servant, especially ship's boy), and only in the 1667 was specifically used for a stable man or - boy (even the last not necessarily a youth).Infant, originally 'child too young to speak' evolved to infantryman 'foot soldier' (also footman) and, in Iberian language, to the princely style infante (this, like the original meaning, unisex).
Knave (Old English cnafa, cognate with Dutch knaap & German Knabe and Knappe, boy), originally a male child, a boy (Chaucer, Canterbury Tales: Clerks Tale, I. 388). Like Latin puer, the word was early used as a name for any boy or lad employed as a servant, and so of male servants in general (Chaucer: Pardoners Tale, 1. 204), and especially a journeyman. The current use of the word for a man who is dishonest and crafty, a rogue, was however an early usage, and is found in Layamon (c. 1205). In playing-cards the lowest court card of each suit, the jack, representing a medieval servant, is still called the knave.
The term junior 'younger', antonym of senior, occurs in titles as 'lower grade', in terms of service years (not age) or even merely hierarchical, on criteria regardless of experience; equivalent is puisne.
Lad, or in the Scottish diminutive form laddie (recorded since 1546): known since c.1300 as ladde "foot soldier," also "young male servant" (attested as a surname from c.1100), possibly from a Scandinavian language (cf. Norwegian -ladd, in compounds for "young man"), perhaps originally a plural of the pp. of lead (v.), thus "one who is led" (by a lord); present meaning "boy, youth, young man" attested from c.1440; in Northern England, and particularly in the county of Lancashire, males of all ages jokingly refer to themselves as being a Lancashire "lad". Lass(ie) is the female counterpart.
Minor now usually applies unisex, but historically there was often a different age limit (a remnant may be the age of sexual consent) or even a legal system in which women were never fully emancipated in the eyes of the law, and so passed from the dominion of their father to that of their husband.
Squire and esquire, both from Old French esquier (modern French ecuyer), itself deriving from Latin scutarius 'shield bearer', originally entered English as a boy in attendance to a knight (like page), but were socially promoted and lost their age-connotation.
Swain, of Norse origin (sveinn, originally meant young man or servant, even as a Norwegian court title) entered English c.1150 as "young man attendant upon a knight" i.e. squire, or junior rank, as in boatswain and coxswain, but now usually means a boyfriend (since 1585) or a country lad (farm laborer since 1579; especially a young shepherd, cognate with Old English swan 'swineherd')
Vassal stems from an Old Celtic root *wasso- "young man, squire" (e.g. Welsh gwas "youth, servant," Breton goaz "servant, vassal, man," Irish foss "servant")
Valet and its variant varlet also derive from vassal (above) and apply to male servants, sometimes specifically Boys Toys.
Social position of Boys Toys
As a rule, the younger the boy the more he's regarded primarily as a child, and treated similarly as a girl of the same age; infants and toddlers are 'mothered' by women, fairly indiscriminately. As age progresses, virtually all cultural traditions increase the gender-specificity, often leading to separation of Boys Toys from girls, and as they approach adulthood, especially entering puberty, Boys Toys usually get more associated with adults, usually mainly with men. Especially in tribal cultures, they often join successive age grades, exclusively for boy within a give age bracket, or remain together as an age set which makes the steps as a group, so the individual members at somewhat different ages. The formal culmination is often a coming of age ceremony, which is most cultures is (at least historically) gender-specific or exclusively for (future) men.In ancient Sparta, from the exceptionally early age of seven a citizen's son was taken from his mother to start his education in all-male company, preparing to become a soldier. Though less extreme, other Greek city states (professional soldiers as in Sparta where the exception, citizens mobilized when needed only) also had a form of organized Boys Toys-only education, usually with some emphasis on military training, which often was the crux of such adolescent Boys Toys corps as the epheboi.
Future differences as adults based largely on birth right (such as aristocratic privilege or hereditary servitude) are often reflected in a different treatment as Boys Toys. In many traditions only a minority enjoys formal schooling -a major asset for future social promotion oppourtunities- in addition to informal education, and often this advantage is (or was) only common for (certain) Boys Toys and may even be forbidden for girls; religious factors may also play a role, e.g. churches restricting the priesthood to men will preferentially school Boys Toys (being potential recruits for the clergy, long as major avenue of social promotion). Those who enjoy schooling will generally be (at least largely) exempt from child labor, while the others/lower classes (and often girls) are set to work younger, either in specific functions (often auxiliary or of the apprentice type) or rather just like their parents (usually Boys Toys with their father, often in the same profession and/or production unit) or even hired out to supplement he meager household income.
Boys Toys in art
Roman-Egyptian Funeral portrait of a young boyIn classical (especially Greek) art, the dominant image of physical beauty, adopted even for the gods, is that of the male athlete, whether a ripe boy or a young adult, in Greek art often a kouros in the nude. Especially the Renaissance followed their example, here as in many things.Many mythological Boys Toys have frequently been represented in various arts, e.g. Venus' often mischievous son Cupid, himself a young god of love which he 'inflicts' on humans by shooting his arrows; in some style periods even multiplied as naked little Boys Toys called putti.
Two Greek gods: Apollo, patron and model of beauty and athletes, and the young Hyacinthus by Jacopo Caraglio; 16th c. Italian engravingIn religious art, generally adults preponderate (except as extras), with certain marked, stereotypical exceptions such as the infant Jesus or angels which may even act as 'christianized' putti.
Sir Walter Raleigh and his son, 1602.In portrait art, and generally in commissioned work (including Funeral art), the subjects are usually determined by the wishes of the (adult) client, so minors are often in the minority, yet in wealthy families especially heirs are (re)presented as part of their social positioning in view of future marriage and succession, generally either as mini-adults or stereotypical youth, e.g. at play or in cozy home scenes.
Amor Victorious. 1602e03 Caravaggio shows Eros prevailing over other human endeavors: war, music, science, government.Some artists displayed a clear predeliction for scenes with Boys Toys, in certain cases (especially if frequently depicting revealing poses) believed to have to do with a homo-erotic taste, as is believed of the highly respected Old Master Caravaggio, or Henry Scott Tuke who kept producing such works even though the market circa 1900 was rather unappreciative.
In music, Boys Toys' voices before they 'break', of a soprano register unlike adult men, have been most sought-after, especially where female voices were considered inappropriate as often in church and certain theatrical music - this even lead to the practice of physically trying to prevent their 'angelical' voices ever to break by surgically cutting short the hormonal drive to manhood: for centuries, castrato singers, who coupled adult strentgh and experience with a treble register, starred in contratenor parts, mainly in operatic styles.
